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Who needs a valentine when you’ve got a vibrator?
Anonymous I bought a new vibrator last week. It has 20 different settings from hard pulsating buzzes to long soothing symphonies. I told...
Feb 14, 20214 min read


Limiting sexual health services now indicates the UK’s failure to prioritise women’s lives
By Izzy Bohn NOTE: I use the terms woman and women’s health, however, it is crucial to acknowledge that it is not only people who...
Jan 27, 20214 min read

Not just dirty talk: How honest communication can change your sex life
By Jill Heller We need to talk about sex. Actually, hold that thought. We need to talk about talking about sex. Chances are, if you are...
Dec 10, 20205 min read


Choke me daddy: Who really gets hurt by kink-shaming?
I’m just going to come out and say it, I’ve got a banging RACK. No, I’m not rambling on about my own set of knockers – I’m talking about...
Sep 6, 20205 min read


Love sex? Love lube: Top tips for your very own WAP
Lube has been around for over a century; I am not kidding – the first non-sterile version of lube was on the shelves in 1904 but there...
Aug 23, 20204 min read


Paypigs: exploitation or just another kink?
By Olivia Stringer You’ve probably heard of Sugar Daddies; (usually) older men who pay beautiful younger women in cash and lavish gifts...
Aug 9, 20204 min read

It’s time to make menstrual cups mainstream
I was 9 when I first saw an advert for menstrual cups. It was stuck to the back of the toilet door at my favourite local restaurant. A...
Aug 2, 20205 min read


In conversation with Naked Grapefruit: vibrators, orgasms and reclaiming selfish sex
Note While discussions of sex often link vaginas to womenhood, we know this is not the case. ‘Female’ is not indicative of gender, and in...
Jul 27, 20205 min read


Fingering: How not to leave your women feeling like a broken lift button
NOTE This is an article for anyone venturing downtown on a person with a vagina. Where I have used ‘women’ regularly, this is not to...
Jul 19, 20204 min read


The curious world of female masturbation
Masturbation. It’s something we all discover at some point in our lives. Be that through a late-night run in with your bedroom pillow, or...
Jun 28, 20204 min read


When sex hurts: myth-busting and guidance on vaginismus
If you have a vagina, you have at some point thought something was wrong with it. Whether problems with orgasming, discharge consistency,...
Jun 14, 20206 min read
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